What I don’t like is how my default reaction to meeting new people is to hate them, and then I allow myself to slowly warm to them.
Did you hate me when you first met me? :p
I think I generally have to warm to people before I actually like them too, but that sounds like a more average reaction because I don’t hate them as a default. I’m more like an unsure dog, who has to sniff and lick your hand first before I can decide if you’re alright. Metaphorically of course.